As soon as I found out I was pregnant I knew I needed to buy a few books -- books on raising a little one. Silly? Maybe. But I just didn't have any experience in the area! To be honest, I was not very interested in the pregnancy side of things. I wanted to know the basics about what was growing inside of me but other than that, I didn't spend very much of time reading about pregnancy. My nighstand was filled with what happens after birth, the real unknowns and need-to-knows for first-time parents. So I thought I might share a few books that really helped us newbies make the transition into parenthood...
The Happiest Baby on the Block by Harvey Karp MD- this came highly recommended from several people. We read the book, but the DVD of was so much more helpful. To watch that man stop a baby from crying was magical..we practiced all his voodoo. Just kidding, it's not voodoo but it was definitely useful to see the techniques in real life.
Bringing up Bebe: One American Mother Discovers the Wisdom of French Parenting: by Pamela Druckerman- We have this as an audiobook which was fun to listen to and hear the author speak in numerous faux-french accents. We listened to it before Glory was born and are actually listening to it again right now. It's definitely a memoir and should not be taken as proven science or anything, but there are little nuggets of wisdom that really helped us.
Baby 411: Clear Answers & Smart Advice For Your Baby's First Year by Denise Fields and Ari Brown MD - I wanted a book that I could look up answers to if something came up. This book is exactly that without being too uptight or unrealistic. I liked it so much that I recently got the sequel, Toddler 411.
Simpliticy Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids by Kim John Payne and Lisa M. Ross - I stumbled across this book and thought the title sounded interesting, but wowza. I've been listening to the audiobook for the past few weeks and had no idea how thought provoking and engaging it would be. I could talk for hours about the ideas and research presented in this book..but suffice it to say, the authors present a case for how a quieter and simpler home life is highly correspondent to happier and well-adjusted kiddos.
And that's really it. I checked books out at the library so I could decide if they were worth purchasing and I found that a lot of them just weren't for me. Of course the internet is it's own beast when it comes to baby questions so I try to steer clear of getting sucked into mommy forums. I found breastfeeding books to be completely unhelpful, reading about breastfeeding and actually doing it are completely different things. And at the end of the day, it's truly an on the job training kind of thing :)
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